I Love Online

Do you know how to get a ton of love from women on dating sites? It’s easy, just don’t make any of these awful mistakes that will completely ruin your chances:

1) No Picture. You need a picture dude! Women won’t waste time on you if you don’t show them what you look like upfront.

2) Bad Picture. There are a lot of things that can go wrong in a profile picture… Make sure yours is clear, that it shows your face and shoulders, that you have an appropriate expression on your face, and that your style is at least decent.

3) Strange User-name. Don’t get weird here or give yourself a sexual name like “Big_DaddyP”

4) Boring Headline. Saying “Hey”, “Insert Headline Here”, or anything boring and generic is going to make you look boring and generic. Instead get creative and say something fun like “Guaranteed Housebroken”

5) Boring cliche content. Writing that you are “down to earth” or “an honest guy with strong work ethic” is going to put women to sleep. Check out some other guys profiles and make a point not to sound like every other Joe Schmoe on match.com

6) No captivating images. Writing a profile is like painting a picture. You’ve got to show the ladies what you’re all about and give them an idea of what it would be like to be with you. This is done by describing yourself and your life in a pleasant descriptive way that shows off your well develop self-image.

7) No “Call To Action.” Yeah if the rest of your profile is great then she might email you… But you definitely up your chances of being contacted first if you end your profile with a strong call to action. A lot of guys get weird at the ends of there profiles and start waffling around, and that leaves things on a sour note. Instead just confidently close your message so that it leaves her wanting more. Which means, you tell her what to do next as in, “…So if you’d like to see me in real life sometime… get in touch!”

Originally published here.

I think that right now there are soooo many dating websites out there, and honestly, which one do you go with?!  My journey with online dating seemed long and frankly a little frustrating.  It seemed hard to fine those legitamate sites, you know the one’s that actually care about what they are doing!

The first one’s I tried were totally FREE and as my mother used to tell me, “there’s nothing free in this life that’s worth having”!  Obviously she was right as these turned out to be one BIG disaster!  Basically it seemed like alot of fake people who were not really looking for anything or those people who thought it would be funny to play around with other people’s feelings.

The next one I tried was $25 a month (that’s a basket of groceries)!  I just could not justify spending that amount on something was yet to get me results.  The best one’s I found were the one’s that let you register for free and then charge a small fee thereafter.  At least with those you dont really lose out a big deal.

So after around 6 months and almost giving up I came across a good one, HeartsDesired.com.  I stumbled upon by chance and seen that it was FREE REGISTRATION for 7 days.  I thought to myself, this is the last seven days I will spend doing online dating!

So after the first few days I got chatting to to this guy called steve; he had a nice profile, seemed genuine and was cute!  I thought it might be to good to be true but went along with it.  After a few weeks of emailing from the Hearts Desired web site, we spoke on the phone for a while.  It was all going great and so we decided to meet.  I was so nervous I was almost shaking; I mean how many times have you heard those stories where people upload OLD photo’s and then you see them and they look like your grandad!

Well luckily this wasn’t the case with Steve, he was exactly what I wanted and more!  We hit it off and have been dating ever since!  We still live alittle far apart but we are talking about moving closer to eachother so fingers crossed!

I just wanted people to see that it is really possible for people to find happiness online, but remember, you have to find a good website.  Try HeartsDesired.com first and maybe you’ll save 6 months of wasting time and money!

Originally published here.

I think that right now there are soooo many dating websites out there, and honestly, which one do you go with?!  My journey with online dating seemed long and frankly a little frustrating.  It seemed hard to fine those legitamate sites, you know the one’s that actually care about what they are doing!

The first one’s I tried were totally FREE and as my mother used to tell me, “there’s nothing free in this life that’s worth having”!  Obviously she was right as these turned out to be one BIG disaster!  Basically it seemed like alot of fake people who were not really looking for anything or those people who thought it would be funny to play around with other people’s feelings.

The next one I tried was $25 a month (that’s a basket of groceries)!  I just could not justify spending that amount on something was yet to get me results.  The best one’s I found were the one’s that let you register for free and then charge a small fee thereafter.  At least with those you dont really lose out a big deal.

So after around 6 months and almost giving up I came across a good one, HeartsDesired.com.  I stumbled upon by chance and seen that it was FREE REGISTRATION for 7 days.  I thought to myself, this is the last seven days I will spend doing online dating!

So after the first few days I got chatting to to this guy called steve; he had a nice profile, seemed genuine and was cute!  I thought it might be to good to be true but went along with it.  After a few weeks of emailing from the Hearts Desired web site, we spoke on the phone for a while.  It was all going great and so we decided to meet.  I was so nervous I was almost shaking; I mean how many times have you heard those stories where people upload OLD photo’s and then you see them and they look like your grandad!

Well luckily this wasn’t the case with Steve, he was exactly what I wanted and more!  We hit it off and have been dating ever since!  We still live alittle far apart but we are talking about moving closer to eachother so fingers crossed!

I just wanted people to see that it is really possible for people to find happiness online, but remember, you have to find a good website.  Try HeartsDesired.com first and maybe you’ll save 6 months of wasting time and money!

Originally published here.